The entire bible story is in every one of us. If you are searching for emotional answers for things burdening your heart, you are at the right place. They may be questions about yourself, currently too big or deep, but every spiritual question has an answer. Those issues, settings, or events may be far too complex, but there is a manner to dissect them so that they can be embraced and ultimately conquered. To understand them, you must look at those things in an order, a schedule, a hierarchy. That correct order is the only way you the searcher will ever be able to find the truth that your heart so desperately needs to be in complete peace.
The first step
we are going to take, before we talk about anything else, is to talk about you. Any deep emotional pain, and its causes can
only be embraced and healed successfully by understanding the order and having a
trustful peace about that part of your life or that part of a loved one’s life. Understand it
this way; when you get in your car to travel anywhere, you do not know every street,
every turn, every lane change, every event that trip involves from start to
finish, as you make your way to a loved one’s home in another state. All you ever have is the road directly in front
of you and what you are seeing presently.
That is all you need to know is the few hundred feet ahead of you, no
matter how many miles the trip is long. You
trust that you can negotiate the unseen miles ahead when you get to them, each
mile at a time. Your life and
its emotional obstacles are exactly the same way. So much for the long trip comparison to
overcoming the emotional burdens for which you seek answers. Now we are
getting to the ‘talk about you’ part. This is the first few hundred feet of
road that is directly in front of you as you go down the highway of your life.
We read about God in the bible story, but there is also our bible story within each of us. Why you are here, and for that which you are searching tells us plenty about you the person, and your story. Firstly, as I have been close to many who struggled with deep issues, I saw impressive characteristics about all of them, unique to this group. These fine people were to a person deeply spiritual and of the highest moral character. They showed the strongest ties to their community and sense of duty unto Humankind far beyond normal and even above others who are exceptional. Secondly, they demonstrated the deepest capacity for emotionality, and the most profound sense of compassion for all living things. The Bellamy Brothers sung it best in their song’s lyrics, “Let your love fly like a bird on a wing, and let your love bind you to all living things, and let your love shine, and you’ll know what I mean, that’s the reason.’ The mindset of those most burdened and heart broke is the mindset of love and compassion for all others. They who are most burdened and are always the most feeling.
are the most emotionally needful and feeling the least emotionally
understood of almost anyone. Their overpowering deepest spiritual need is to
feel recognized for the unique and special person that they are. They have been starved of all mirroring of who
and what they are. Often times the lack of mirroring has had horrific
consequences on their own spiritual understanding of themselves and their role in
their world. Fourthly, these struggling with deep emotional
and spiritual burdens have another surprising quality; They are almost always
exceptionally talented and gifted in some way deeply needed by Humankind. They always
demonstrate some deep capacity for nurturing to others. If they were lightened of their emotional
burdens, and they were reunited with their natural childhood birthright of the Gift
that God bestowed in them, they would light up Humankind in all its glory.
It bothered me for the longest time, the mystery of why such gifted and feeling persons would be overwhelmed by life’s problems, and that persons of lesser character and far less emotionally feeling would not be bothered by, and in fact thrive. Over time the answers came: What I found was that lesser persons as parents, caregivers, teachers, coaches because of their lack of character depth would not be able to mirror back the deep character recognition that the dependent gifted child needed. Persons of lesser character need no such feedback on themselves because they do not care so it does not bother them. Spiritually, we need all dimensions of ourselves mirrored back and recognized as we grow up. If that does not happen, we become shamed and then see ourselves as a mistake. The more deeply sensitive, compassionate, talented and ambitious we are to serve humankind, the more emotionally damaged we can become. And all the while we think it is our inferiority that is causing us to fail! We all follow the entire bible story through our lives. You as a searcher in emotional and spiritual confusion are an unopened gift from God trying to be born and set free. When you add on that Satan has been throwing every obstacle, he can into your life path to discourage you, that kind of explains a lot, doesn’t it? You are a great threat to Satan, unlike persons of lesser character, so Satan is going to spend more of his assets on keeping you in pain, to stop your gift to Humankind from ever emerging. We are going to reunite you to your higher order self, and let you see yourself as your parents should have seen you. When that happens, then you will start answering your own questions, which right now you probably cannot even put into words.
For right now, consider
that you are a far more gifted and deified asset to Humankind than most other
people. You are definitely far above
average in virtues of character, compassion and feeling. Those very assets are going to change
everything for you. Your life is about
to blossom into full bloom. Ninety-eight percent of people out there do not possess
one small part of your character! I have seen it in many others and I am betting I will see it in you.